I’m a Product Owner of a newly formed Agile Scrum team. I’ve never been a Product Owner before (I’ve only ever worked in Marketing, but now find myself sitting in IT with the software development team). I’d say we’re struggling with our Agile/Scrum implementation we’ve never done it before and are finding our way through the Agile forest by reading books. We don’t have any ScrumMasters or anyone I can ask for help. There’s one person in my software Scrum team who know a bit about Agile and he keeps telling me that I can’t tell the team what to commit to. He’s quite senior and I’m pretty junior and although I’ve questioned this once or twice I don’t feel I know enough about Agile or Scrum to have anything other than a completely one sided conversation!

I feel pretty rubbish as he takes over the planning session, picks what we do from the backlog and too be honest I don’t really know what I’m doing in the meeting. Help me please, is this how it should work? What’s the point of me being in the meeting?